There isn’t exactly a formula to help you get one hook up after another. It all depends on your personality and how well you attract other people to yourself. But, there are some tips and tricks that should help you find the hook ups you’re looking for.
Of course the first thing you have to do is make sure you’re on a website that has variety. You want to only join reputable websites that have a wide variety of members. These websites should also have a good ratio of male to female members. You should have a user friendly interface and even a mobile app. The best websites out there right now have all added mobile apps to give their members more ways to connect with one another. If the website only allows paying members, you want to make sure it’s worth your time. There should be a trial offered, use that first. Dig through members to get a feel of the kind of profiles on the website. Find a website that has a good collection of users who want the same thing as you and are compatible with your needs.
From there, it’s about presenting yourself correctly. Your profile should be detailed and to the point. You should have good and clear pictures. You should have as many pictures as you’re able to have. These pictures should show a bit of your personality, but they should also make the viewer want to see more. You want to allure your potential hook ups into contacting you. But, you also don’t want to leave your profile empty, because many people will just skip over you.
When you’re exchanging messages with someone, be upfront about what you’re looking for. Tell them about yourself and be honest. Don’t try and come across as more impressive than you actually are. Be truthful, but present yourself in an interesting way. Through text you can use emoticons to convey your thoughts. You can wink and smile. You want to hint that you are thinking about the possibility of a hook up with each person, without over doing it.
You want to build a good lead up from the first message to getting the person in bed. Once the conversations come offline, you have more pressure to carrying yourself in an interesting and alluring way. Maintain a relaxed demeanour. That’s the most important thing you can do. This will tell your hook up that you’re confident in what you’re both going to do. Plus, you won’t truly enjoy yourself if you’re not relaxed. So it benefits everyone.
A good performance may or may not have anything to do with how many hook ups you manage to get. While we all like to think our talents are far reaching, they aren’t. There isn’t likely to be anyone talking about our performance in the bedroom. Of course, you should make your performance memorable, but it won’t help or hurt your chances with anyone else. Well, by a standard rule. There are exceptions, of course.
There is a good chance your online presence is what your hook ups are going to see first. Obviously, you have to put your primary focus on that.