So you’ve started looking into adult sex sites. What’s next? It’s not as easy as logging in, making a profile and messaging people. There are steps to choosing the right site, setting up the right profile and even messaging the right people. If you’re new to online dating in general, you’re going to want to keep reading for some tips and tricks to getting started. If you’ve been online dating and you’re just switching to adult oriented sites, you’re still going to want to keep reading.
It never hurts to keep your knowledge fresh.
The Right Site
This makes the world of a difference when it comes to adult sex sites. If you join a website with a bad reputation, or an anything but user friendly interface, you’re bound to have little or no success making connections. You want a website that has high ratings online. You want positive reviews. You, ideally, want to have heard about the site through friends (online or offline). You want to know that you’re going to get something out of the time you invest into setting up an account. You also want to know if the site requires a paid membership, or if it’s free to join. This is all important information. You might have considered most of it. One thing most people don’t consider when it comes to online dating is the mobile compatibility of the website. Think about it. How often are you on your cellphone? Don’t you want to be able to browse profiles and send messages? If the website has an app, even better. That’s how you know they care about their members.
A Great Profile
The next step is making sure your profile really stands out against all the other ones. You want to make sure you include a bunch of information about yourself. This information is different from an average dating site. You don’t want to mention your PG interests like music and movies. You want to talk more about who you are in the bedroom. Or, who you’d like to be. You want to talk about your favorite positions. If you have kinks, mention them. If you’re looking for a particular body type, mention that. You’re looking for someone to by sexually compatible with you. Make sure you list all the qualities you want them to be compatible with. You also want to have different pictures of yourself. Depending on the terms of service, you could even post nudes. You want to show off your goods, right?
Now you need to know who you’re looking for. Browse for people who have detailed profiles and lots of pictures. You want to find someone who is compatible with everything you’re looking for. Someone who is looking for the exact same things as you. Someone who you can picture having all kinds of fun with. That’s the type of person you’re going to want to be messaging. There’s no sense considering emotional compatibility since most people on these sites are looking for the occasional hook up and nothing more. But you do have to really consider physical compatibility. Think about what you’d like to do. Ask them if they’d be interested in doing any of those things with you. If they are, go from there. If they aren’t, keep looking.
Most importantly, have fun with the experience. Be safe and don’t give out any silly information that isn’t necessary (like credit card or address). Communicate your needs and desires. If you’re doing that, you’re probably going to have a great time.