Yes, of course sex dating sounds really bad, doesn’t it? The idea of casually meeting someone on a website that you agree to have just sex with, no emotional ties, no uncomfortable break ups, no love affair to go horribly and terrifically wrong – that really sounds like the worst thing in the world, doesn’t it?
Seriously – think about it. Casual sex, adult fun, NSA, extra-curricular, whatever it is that you want to call it – there is something be said about that style of dating. The type of dating that no one talks about. It can’t be as bad as you think if everyone seems to be doing it….
(Trust us on this one – they are…)
When I first signed up to a sex dating website and searched by location for horny and hot women to screw, fuck buddies if you like, but ones that had the same idea as me, I was AMAZED by how many girls I’d actually seen around and about. I saw one beautiful busty blonde that worked just across from me in the shopping centre. I’ve not mustered up the balls to actually message her yet because she’s like a ten out of ten hot and you need to be really confident to go for those kinda girls. It’s crazy the kinda ladies you’ll find on these casual sex dating websites. You’ll understand when you sign up and start searching, trust me.
The girl that seems to get the same train as you most mornings, the girl with the long red hair that you’re sure isn’t her natural colour, with the big red lips to match – she’s on that website. Do you want to know how I know that? Because I’ve banged her. I’ve probably banged a few women you lust after on a day to day basis. I’m enjoying the fruits that the sex dating tree has to offer, and you’d be a fool to miss out on that kind of action in your life. It’s not something I do all the time but when I’m in between relationships, of course I want to sow my wild oats… Don’t we all?
Sex dating is easy. It’s simple. There’s no muss and no fuss. There’s no complicate relationships or emotional ties. It’s simple, to the point, and there are never any crossed wires.
Do you really think the girls you’re seeing these sex dating websites are really looking for a relationship? All girls love a bad guy but there are very few out there stupid enough to believe they could ‘change’ a man they met on a sex-only website into wanting the full she-bang with her – marriage, kids, a dog, two hamsters, and a goldfish.
The girls you’ll come across on these sites know exactly what they’re getting themselves into. They’re probably just like you – not weird and creep in the slightest but lonely after one too many Friday nights spent by yourself while your friends all seem to be coupling off.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting the touch of someone’s flesh on yours, and those girls – the girls you’ll find on sex dating websites, that’s all they want from you. No emotion, no “I love you”, no complicated stuff – just sex. That’s all – just sex.