There are many different reasons behind someone wanting to go out there and actually look for a bit of cheeky casual sex action on a lonely, frustrating Friday night. Casual sex isn\u2019t just casual sex – it\u2019s not a case of hooking up with someone, drunk, in some trendy-looking wine bar, and hoping they don\u2019t want anything more when you both wake up the next morning. Casual sex is so much better than your average one night stand.<\/p>\n
Put it this way – if you thought those one night things were good for you, you have no clue until you\u2019ve met someone online that knows you want nothing but sex, doesn\u2019t want anything but sex themselves, and won\u2019t bug you until you propose, give them a couple of kids, and put a nice white-picket-fence around the yard and a nice looking roof over their heads.<\/p>\n
Casual sex is nothing like that.<\/p>\n
There\u2019s \u2018rec sex\u2019 for example – recreational sex. This is sex you have because you can – it\u2019s fun, you have fun, you let your hair down a little bit because you know it\u2019s just for fun. You\u2019re not worrying about the future, or what the next couple of months will bring you. You\u2019re just living in the hear and now.<\/p>\n
What\u2019s so wrong with that anyway?<\/strong><\/p>\n There\u2019s also \u2018booty call\u2019 sex – sex that you have on a drunken Friday night – you shoot a cheeky message and hope they say yes in return. When they do (and if you met them on a casual sex dating website, they probably will if they have nothing else going on) you have a night of frivolous fun that brings with it no ties or hassles, and just a truck load of sexy, hot fun!<\/p>\n \u2018Appointment sex\u2019 – you\u2019re free next Thursday afternoon so you want someone to help you occupy that time, preferably with something you really enjoy doing. What more could you enjoy doing than casual sex? What better person to have casual sex with than someone that wants to have casual sex with you\u2026?<\/p>\n \u2018Mercy sex\u2019 – OK so this is a kind of unspoken one really – mercy sex is the sex you have with someone that you\u2019re not all that into, but they seem to be into you and you have nothing else going on that night so you may as well \u2018give it a go\u2019. We\u2019ve all been there\u2026. C\u2019mon!<\/p>\n \u2018Occasion sex\u2019 – you need someone to go to a party with you, pretend to be your right now girlfriend for the night, (or boyfriend) give you rip-roaring drunken sex for everyone else to hear that night, and then leave the next morning without a care in the world, not worried if they\u2019re going to meet your parents next week or not.<\/p>\n I bet you\u2019re wondering why I\u2019m discussing all of this right now? I bet you\u2019re wondering what all this has to do with casual sex dating – why is this being brought up?<\/p>\n The reality of casual sex dating is this – all of those people discussed above are people that you will meet on these websites. They are girls (and boys) that don\u2019t have time for a \u2018real\u2019 relationship, or maybe just don\u2019t want one. Perhaps they\u2019re not long out of a relationship and are looking for an ego-boost of sorts? Maybe they\u2019re secretly married but aren\u2019t getting what they want back home? There are many different reasons behind someone wanting to go out there and actually look for a bit of cheeky casual sex action on a lonely, frustrating Friday night. Casual sex isn\u2019t just casual sex – it\u2019s not a case of hooking up with someone, drunk, in some trendy-looking wine bar, and hoping they don\u2019t […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":405,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[60,55,50,57,49,52],"tags":[82,62,66,72,84,61,80],"class_list":["post-386","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-hookup-dating-sites","category-hookups-near-me","category-local-hookups","category-nsa-dating","category-sex-dating","category-women-looking-for-sex","tag-casual-sex-dating","tag-local-hookups","tag-no-strings-dating","tag-nsa-dating","tag-sex-contacts-near-me","tag-sex-dating","tag-what-is-casual-dating"],"yoast_head":"\n
\nMaybe, just maybe, they are looking for whatever it is that you are looking for? No ties, adult fun, casual sex, no strings attached stuff that will leave you both with a smile on your faces and a spring in your step the next morning! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"